
The 7 Most Common Sex Fantasies--And How Many People Have Ever Had Them
Which sexual fantasies have you had? I surveyed 4,175 Americans about the content of their sex fantasies for my book tell me what you want and found seven major themes that emerged. These themes were:
1. Multipartner sex (think threesomes, orgies, and gangbangs)
2. Bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism (or BDSM for short)
3. Novelty, adventure, and variety (i.e., doing something that’s new and different for you, such as sex in a new position or setting)
4. Taboo sex acts (i.e., doing something that is socially or culturally forbidden)
5. Passion, romance, and intimacy (i.e., emotionally connecting with a partner or feeling loved, appreciated, or desired)
6. Being in a nonmonogamous relationship (e.g., swinging, polyamory, cuckolding, or having an open relationship)
7. Gender-bending and homoeroticism (i.e., pushing the boundaries of your gender identity/role/expression and/or your sexual orientation)
So how many people reported having ever had each of these fantasies? I’ve compiled that information in the chart below separately for self-identified men and women.
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